I call these tips for getting back together, but in reality they should be called rules – remember yesterday when I said there were a few more rules you need to follow?

1. Are you both willing to compromise? – Understand that things won’t always go your way. And sometimes you may have to make a sacrifice for the relationship. If you’re prepared for this inevitable compromise, check this one off, too.

2. Are you in love with your ex? – Or are you in love with the romantic idea of getting back together with your ex?

3. Are you confident your ex loves you? – Are you getting back together again because you love each other or because it’s the comfortable thing to do? Have you tried getting along without your ex?

4. Are you both willing to forget the past – The past is over and can’t be changed. If you of you is holding a grudge, or is unwilling to forgive the other, than this is not a good time to get back together.

5. Are you and your ex willing to continue working on developing and taking care of yourselves? – Love means a total commitment to each other, but not at the sake of your own self. Will you be able to allow your ex the space he or she needs to continue working on their own self improvement and growth?

Once you’ve both come to an agreement on these and many other issues, you will be well on your way to getting back together and finding lasting love.

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